![](http://www.gillhow.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/violence-ge4655bfa5_640-1.jpg)
Will Smith’s behaviour at the Oscars has prompted a rash of writing, it has urged me to share something of my own story and thinking too. In the era I was brought up, what we now call domestic violence was far more common. Sometimes it was even seen as an ordinary and appropriate part of parenting. After seven years in…